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Tuesday, January 3, 2023

MY GOALS FOR 2023 - ACCOUNTABILITY POST

HAPPY NEW YEAR! It's now 2023 and I am so grateful we all made it! My kids were sick most of the last part of 2022 and we were holding our breath, hoping they made it to Christmas healed. Thankfully, they did. Praise God! 

How many of you make New Year's resolutions? I used to, but personally, I dislike them. They're usually too vague or too lofty and it becomes difficult to keep up with them. A few years ago, I was introduced to the concept of mapping out my year ahead of time by creating a list of goals for the year and mapping out how I was going to achieve those goals. I like this idea a lot better, and today I'm going to share my 2023 goals with you. Remember that a year is 365 days, so not every goal has to be accomplished immediately. 

Here is my big list for the year. 

2023 Goals

Financial

Save $50 per paycheck, totaling $1,300 by December 31, 2023

Tithe 10% off the top of every paycheck

Use tax refund to fund a month’s worth of expenses, so that we can essentially “skip” a paycheck, and start funding the next month’s expenses each month, keeping at minimum, a full month’s pay in the bank always 

Create sinking funds for quarterly and annual bills, and for veterinary care, children’s clothing, and car repairs

Wait 3 days before making any discretionary purchases

Cut our grocery budget by $300 a month


Spiritual

Read my Bible every day for a minimum of thirty minutes, starting with three times a week for two weeks, then moving up to four days a week for two weeks, then five, then six, then a full 7 days.

Attend ladies’ craft nights at church every month

Spend my Sabbaths media free. Read a book, take a walk, photograph nature, play board games, spend time with people I love, or craft instead

Reach out to friends at least twice a month to connect over coffee/tea, a walk, a meal, etc. 


Physical/Health

Take 52 walks this year

Meal prep weekly

Cut dairy to three servings a week

Replace coca cola with herbal teas

Fast food once a month only

Spend a minimum of 15 minutes a day stretching and moving my body intentionally 


Household

Replace the Catio roof and add more perches 

Tile the bathtub and shower

Renovate the pantry area

Tear out the front room and create a seating area using materials we already own

Create a more functional laundry system that keeps dirty clothing off the laundry room floor

Replace the torn couches with budget-friendly options – i.e. Facebook marketplace, Craigslist, markdowns, etc. 

Restructure the bedroom closet to make it more functional

Downsize the home, room by room, starting with the Master Bedroom

Create a safer play area for the children in the backyard by tearing down the wooden structure and replacing it with something custom-built – utilizing as much of the materials that we already own as possible

Plant a large garden on our property

Replace our fence – use up all the materials we already own first, before purchasing more

Repair the broken laptops for kids’ and personal use

Purchase a new printer/scanner for the home

Clean and organize the garage

Replace the roof before winter


Personal

Blog twice a week

Vlog once a week

Cut Facebook/media time to 30 minutes (TOTAL) a day or less

Read all the books on my bookshelves and donate the ones I won’t reread

Try one new recipe a week, minimum

Increase the amount of canning and dehydrating I do this year

Be more intentional with my time, by

  • Planning out errand days
  • Meal planning ahead of time
  • Scheduling chore days for myself to keep up on housework
  • Allowing my body to rest when I’m tired
  • Saying no to any activity that drains me emotionally
  • Only scheduling one large project at a time and not starting another until I am finished with the current one
  • Setting my phone down and finding something else to do when I feel bored and still have physical energy

So what about you? What are some of your goals for the year? Anything big you'd like to tackle? 

My goofy Hubby showing our teen how to shoot


Stay tuned for another episode. See you next time! And remember, if you or a loved one is in danger, get help immediately, and don't stop talking until someone acts on your words.

National Domestic Abuse Hotline: 800-799-7233 Hours: 24/7. Languages: English, Spanish, and 200+ through interpretation service. SMS: Text START to 88788

National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673 Hours: Available 24 hours. https://www.rainn.org/

988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline Hours: Available 24 hours. Languages: English, Spanish. https://988lifeline.org/

In Christ alone our hope is found


Run, don't walk for help! You're worth it.

 

 

 

Thursday, December 15, 2022

CHRISTMAS AND EASTER

Off and on for about 20 years, I taught Sunday School and worked with children in a church setting. I loved it, but as I increased my own family, I found myself needing a bit of a break on Sunday mornings, so I moved away from it a couple of years ago. It's been a healthy transition for me and provided the solace and rest I need on the Sabbath. 

One of the things I used to teach the children around this time of the year is the importance of Easter. Yes, it's still a few months off, but hear me out. Without the sacrifice, death, and ascension of Christ, there would be no need to celebrate His birth, because He would not be Who He claimed to be during His years of ministry, or throughout the entirety of the Old Testament. He would simply be a nice man who treated people well and did some fun magic tricks. Why would we celebrate His birth over 2,000 years later if that's all He was? 

Jesus has always been a forward thinker. He's always pushed us into the future and encouraged us to make choices based on who He is and who we are in Him. Looking back only serves the purpose of affirming who He is and why we should worship, love, and trust Him our whole lives. Without Easter, there would be no need for Christmas. Without Christ, there is no need for submission. And no real cause for joy in this fallen world. 

And the Word became flesh and dwelt among us, and we have seen his glory, glory as of the only Son from the Father, full of grace and truth. 
-John 1:14 (ESV)


So many folks lament this time of year that "everything is so commercialized" and to a point, they are correct. I feel they're missing a lot by focusing on all the wrong aspects of the season, though. Christmas doesn't have to be about commercialism, and we don't have to allow it to consume our lives, or even annoy us. Focusing on the commercial aspect is a choice - the same as my choice to focus on Easter a little bit during Christmas time. 

My kids and I did a photoshoot years ago where we laid a baby doll in a little wooden crib and knelt down in front of it. We captioned the photo "Wise Men Still Seek Him." I can't find the photo offhand, but I'll keep looking. The point is that Jesus isn't still in the manger, and He isn't still on the cross. He's also not dead. Or in the womb. Or in the tomb. He's in Heaven with His Father, God while we are here on earth, seeking Him with all our hearts, minds, and souls. He's left us the greatest gift - the Holy Spirit. By it, we have wisdom, understanding, and discernment when we read the Scriptures. What a gift! 

We seek Jesus because we know there is nothing else on this earth that can ever satisfy that hole in our hearts the way God can. We were made to love Him, just as He was made to love us and teach us the true meaning of love and of sacrifice. As we choose what to focus on this holiday season, let us never forget to turn our eyes to Jesus and look to the future, embracing the joy and miracle that is the entire life and ministry of Jesus. 



Stay tuned for another episode. I aim to crank out the blog posts three times a week on Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. See you next time! And remember, if you or a loved one is in danger, get help immediately, and don't stop talking until someone acts on your words.

National Domestic Abuse Hotline: 800-799-7233 Hours: 24/7. Languages: English, Spanish, and 200+ through interpretation service. SMS: Text START to 88788

National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673 Hours: Available 24 hours. https://www.rainn.org/

988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline Hours: Available 24 hours. Languages: English, Spanish. https://988lifeline.org/

In Christ alone our hope is found


Run, don't walk for help! You're worth it.