A Proverb A Day Keeps the Folly Away

During the month of September, I've vowed to read a chapter of Proverbs a day. As I read through the book of Proverbs, I rediscover ancient wisdom that is just as prevalant today as it was the day it was written. I'm amazed by the amount of knowledge just waiting to be put to good use. There is nothing to stop us from utilizing it in our every day life, except for unbelief, right? 

Today I was hit hard by Proverbs 9:7-9 (NIV) which states "Whoever corrects a mocker invites insults; whoever rebukes the wicked incurs abuse. Do not rebuke mockers or they will hate you; rebuke the wise and they will love you. Instruct the wise and they will be wiser still; teach the righteous and they will add to their learning." This scripture reminded me of my stepfather, and I went into last week's post and edited it to add this scripture. I felt it was more poignant than the one I'd previously included. 

Scripture is a double-edged sword and it can undo, heal, or explain so many years of hurt and torment. Was the problem really you? Or was it the person who chose to inflict the pain that was the problem? When should we step back and stop the relationship? Scripture can help answer all of those questions, but we must engage in the reading of scripture in order to find it. 

Proverbs 1 begins with a list of all the wonderful benefits you'll gain from reading them. You'll gain wisdom and instruction, understand words of insight, gain prudence, and knowledge and discretion, to name a few! There are countless more benefits, but you'll need to do more than just take me at my word. You'll need to dig into God's Word and seek the blessings and benefits for yourself.  There are 31 chapters in the book of Proverbs, and many months have 31 days in them. So you'll simply start with the corresponding chapter to the numeric date. Since the day I'm writing this is September 11, 2023, I will read Proverbs 11 today. Tomorrow I will read Proverbs 12 and so on. Perfection isn't the goal here - simply starting and gaining any level of progress is. 

For the Lord gives wisdom;

from his mouth come knowledge and understanding.

-Proverbs 2:6 (NIV) 

We aren't going to get very far in life simply trusting others to teach us everything we need to know. The world has very little to offer us. Even our parents fail us time and again. We have to seek wisdom at it's source. For too many years, I looked to others to tell me what to do. I felt so broken. I thought I could find answers in religion, in tradition, in secular counseling, in medicine, in books, through movies or television shows, in talking to friends, in listening to lectures and podcasts and radio shows - the list goes on. What I ultimately have found is that I never outgrow the need for the Bible, never outgrow my need for God, and that each time I read His Word, I rediscover a deeper meaning of the texts within. I mature in my faith and grow as a Christian woman, wife, and mother. 

The pain inflicted upon me by my parents is now mine to fix or to roll around in like a pig in mud. I can make it my handicap or I can make it my strength, because I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength! +Philippians 4:13

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